“When you convince yourself that it is okay for someone to decide who you are, you open the floodgates to powerlessness and worthlessness.” – Iyanla Vanzant Don’t do that. Don’t let anyone else determine your value and worth.

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Quote of the Day — Don’t Lose Hope

“You only need to focus on one little step forward. You don’t need to conquer the entire mountain right now. You don’t need to have everything figured out today. The only possible way to climb a mountain is by climbing it one step at a time. Don’t think about the peak. Don’t worry about what […]

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Keeping it Manageable — Don’t Lose Hope

“The first draft of anything is shit.” ― Ernest Hemingway I think this truth can be applied to our life, and often to our relationships, as well. The first stab at anything is nothing more than that. A stab in the dark. A first attempt. We act on instinct, repeating what we’ve learned. Unconsciously living […]

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A Shitty Life or a Wonderful Life? — Help for Partners of Sex Addicts

“We’re conditioned to believe that our worthiness and power come from being chosen. We meander around, hoping those who surround us would validate our existence and goodness. Your worth comes from choosing yourself, and your worth comes from reclaiming all that you are; to speak, feel, and do without the need for permission, or fear […]

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Quote of the Day — Help for Partners of Sex Addicts

The last six years or so have been a ride. I thought alcohol rehab in 2014 would be the end of it. I thought the same for sex/porn addiction rehab in 2015 or jail in 2016. Then there was my first book and launching this website. Initially designed as just a promotional tool, I had […]

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If You’ve Ever Wanted to Help My Cause, This is It — RecoveringPornAddict.com